Introduction- The
purpose of my research was to determine how much Facebook affects our everyday
lives. Our group of seven
individuals divided our research on the grounds of covering all of the possible
scenarios that Facebook can create in life. The first group deleted their
Facebook accounts for good. The second group/control group kept their
Facebooks. The final group deactivated their Facebooks for at least one week.
Through out the course of the week, each individual was required to log their
thoughts about the day that were relevant to facebook and their lives. I was
part of the deactivation group along with Robert Garcia and Alaina Murphy.
Log 1.
I deactivated my Facebook account
to day and immediately I wanted to post about how I couldn’t go online for a
week. Right away I found myself constantly thinking about facebook and what I
was possibly missing out on because I wasn’t allowed to go online. Facebook
also acts as a sort of Internet refresh on my computer. Whenever I am done
being on craigslist, or doing homework I would always log onto my facebook
account before I got off the internet. This was a shock to me, and even caused
some legitimate anxiety for myself. I hope the next few days are better than
the first.
Log 2.
It
has now been three days without facebook and I feel much better. Although I am
still stressing out about how I want to stay connected, I am much more care
free about life. I still have urges to post about the most random things that I
wouldn’t even post if I could use Facebook. On a much more positive note I am
realizing that I am now only connecting with the people that matter most to me
in life. Because I cant use facebook, it has forced myself to contact friends
and family by texting or calling which feels much more personal. This has been
a positive factor on my mental health because I am spending time with the
people that I like the best, in other words my best friends. That has been
great.
Log 3.
It
has been 5 days since deactivation and I am feeling better. My life is improving
everyday. This is a very convenient experiment because it is taking place
during finals week. This means that I have lost the very thing that allows me
to procrastinate the most in life. I am being much more productive in my school
work and I am still spending time with the people that matter most.
Log 4.
I
reactivated my facebook one day, or actually a few hours early because I just
had the craving to go online. I am legitimately embarrassed by this and do not
really want to talk about it. I am writing this a few days after this event,
and looking back on it I think that I could continue on past the deadline to
deactivate Facebook.
Conclusions/ Analysis
I would like to start off the
conclusion to this project by acknowledging the fact that taking a step back
and looking at a possible over use of Facebook is really important to check on
every once in a while. I would not have other wise ever thought to deactivate
my facebook if it were up to myself. Just like most of the members of this
group I came to realize that Facebook is like an emotional drug. We use it as a
stress reliever and binge to make ourselves seem like we are connected
socially. The beginning of the process was very difficult, but it got easier to
deal with reality each day.
The biggest break through of this
project was that I was able to really break down what Facebook is actually
useful for, and what aspects of Facebook make it an unhealthy site for students
in college. Facebook is by far a useful site for sharing memories, pictures,
and information about events. This allows for specific communities to become
stronger and better connected eternally. On the other hand Facebook gives users
the sense that they can check up on anyone of your friends. This can become
very unhealthy, and can potentially turn into an addiction. Facebook also is a
powerhouse for sharing information about your self. Although it mostly is
information that doesn’t affect you, it is still based on the pricipal that
your information should be private to the online world.
Deactivating my facebook was
certainly something that needed to be done. I was border-line addicted and I
needed my supply cut off from me. I noticed that in the long run I became more
productive and I also got to spend time and develop real relationships that
were most important. I will forever think of facebook use differently, and I do
not use it nearly as much as I used too.
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